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Break
Up
29 MAY 07
I
got an email from a reader and she suggested that I wrote about
break ups. The best way to cut ties without resorting to the usual
profanity, tugging of hair and purchasing piles of voodoo dolls.
Honestly, I am inexperience in this intricate field. I don’t
have a string of girlfriends.. I think you must a girlfriend first
before you can break up right.. so… I don’t really have
much stories to share. But before I go on, I would like to share
with you the long outdated poll that released sometime back. |
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Tsk.. The dark serpent speaks truth and yet nobody wanna listen
to it. Hahah. Oh well, I just wanna tell you that I don’t
likey sharing private matters with 11 peoples.. (Hahaha.. nolah,
this site does receive more hits than 11… but it’s too
modest for me to reveal the actual stats. I’ll release my
web stats when the unique visitors hits 12. ?) Ok where was I? Yes,
my love life.. erm.. I rather not say aight. Ok back to break ups…
I do have a break up tale I like to share with you guys.. Man, this
site is fast turning into some sort of a tabloid gossip, mushy Spiderman
3 kinda thing but oh well… Ok,
I was going out with this girl for several numbers of years..
When I say “going out”, I don’t really mean
that. Actually I did liked her and I did “sounded”
her to take this friendship to the next level but she refused..
Now, THAT was one big jab through the heart. But oh well, we still
met up and she got a boyfriend serving in National Service. (lets
call this girl NS BF girl just to be clear) We always hung out
together after school and we didn’t hold hands lah… |
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I met a girl through ICQ from all places.. (I don’t chat now.
Chatting slows me down heaps.) I just done my first website.. yup
my first.. It was an ambitious first try cause the buttons were
images “Photoshopped” together… so once I was
done, I hit the “Find random chatter” button and I got
a list of names.. I prompt this girl to visit my website and she
gave me some critiques. Oh well, then we started to chat.. and then
she asked what my plans for the day are. I said, “I’m
buying toys for this NS BF girl cause her 23rd Birthday is coming.
She got a sad childhood cause her parents did not buy her any toys
when she was a kid so I thought I buy her some toys now.. Nobody
is too late for a Barbie! I tried a shot whether or not she wanna
tag along and the stranger ICQ girl chatter said yes. |
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| I panicked
big time cause I never met strangers from the chat sites before.
(Well, there was actually that one time I went to a dating site
for some blind date thingy.) What if she take advantage of me, molest
me or worse?….. AWESOME! Oh well, we started to spend time
together.. then we would go out almost everyday.. then we would
start chatting on the phone… then I realized that I’m
starting to like this girl then I started to get super jealous if
she talk to other guys…. So one fine day, I sounded her and
she said “YES!”. An awkward YES but still a YES to me.
AWESOME! Although I am technically not going out with NS BF girl
because she already turned down my “sounded” offer…
I have this feeling that I gotta tell her that I’m seeing
someone or it just won’t feel right.. You get what I’m
saying? |
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| I told
myself that it would be a breeze.. we are not technically a couple
right? I asked you to be my girlfriend and you refused and we still
hung out. So I think she might be okay with it. But I have this
odd feeling that things are gonna blow in my face.. And sure it
did. She complained that her Mum was just admitted to the hospital
and I chose a super bad timing to tell her this. I was confused..
I thought we are not going out..
But I didn’t say that part cause
everything was in the mix.. Then she started to ask questions
on who the girl is and how I met her. I don’t want to elaborate
and she started to make assumptions. “Is she that indian
girl you went out with twice? Was it the girl at the coffeebean
that smiled at you? Or is it the girl with the tudung?”
Man.. seriously, I can debate with anyone.. about anything.. politics,
which movie is better and all that stuff.. but I just cannot out
debate an angry woman. They think too fast, I can’t keep
up. They make smart responses while I’m left with “Buts”
and “Sorries”..
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ended up giving me a bad eye and leaving the scene with me and my
mocha frappicinno. I thought we could still be friends… and
I did ask the NS BF girl to met up again. She did but she gave me
the cold, silent treatment. I told her that I’m not comfortable
with her acting this way and she said, and I can still remember
till today.. “If you not comfortable, you can leave.”
Ouch.
Oh well, there are 2 sides to a coin and
this is my version. Who knows one day, she’ll read this
and email me her version.. Or maybe you guys can think up of her
version.. Have a crack at it.. I love to see what sort of reasoning
you can come up with.
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To
conclude this article, I must say, that was a confusing chapter
of my life and I learnt that diplomacy doesn’t work.
BF
on stand by,
Evil Bunny |
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